If you think you can..! Give yourself a chance to do. Prepare yourself accordingly and complete the milestones needed prior what you are going to do.

Resulting, you will, either be successful or get to know your capabilities.
But, considering yourself incapable is a lack of confidence and such people can never be successful..

Yeah! Confidence is everything and preparation is essential..

Never expect from others for anything either for nice attitude, respect love or things. Make expectations to the extent of yourself only.
 
Then
 
You'd never be hopeless.
 
You'd most probably never be failed if you expect rationally and do necessary struggle accordingly.!

If I say money is everything?

Everything that u need to have before you may enjoy something? Relations, parties, family, love & and all other things...!

Weak people do not have energy to accept truth..!

And You dont have energy to speak truth to those..!

You both are same buddies..!

Go ahead and speak truth and let the person go if S/he want to.. An intellectual one will never go..!

Alternatives lead to success!

Successful people always keep alternatives with them to retain themselves at a certain level of success. Such levels do not tolerate incidents/ failures..!

A reserve for contingencies is also an alternative!

For money, there are few types of girls with different aims for money.. Here are they:

1. These girls beliefs that money is everything. They try to have those people or guys who have much money to spend without limitations. But, relationship also require a good-nature person. Money cannot make u happy forever.. It makes u happy for a short period and then you begin to seek pure relationship.

2. These are girls who don't run after money. They either have experienced or heard about losses of been running after money. the concept is, if the money is in their destiny, i.e written over sky (as said someone), they will be rich and if richness is not in their destiny even they are rich now, they will become poor..

3. These are those, who require not much but enough money a guy should have to fulfill their daily basic needs easily. Every girl has a right to chose a guy with normal income.. Definitely she would initially try to seek a normal person then it depends on her destiny what it holds.

Too long to read but, I think its couldn't have been explained otherwise..

A wise and mature man attracts more girls as compare to young and smart boys..

Broken Heart people require to think carefully about them prior you go to make a relationship with them. They might either have become "more wise" or "psycho". And psychologically affected people can badly spoil your life.

Why debate that who is better; a woman or a man?

lets talk about men first! A men is never the less, he is made hard and capable to take responsibility of his family and siblings. He is made head of home (the father and husband) who take decisions intellectually because he has given those intellects to deal with cruel situations. He is intelligent broad mind. No doubt, he work hard just to make his children and wife happy. he earns well just because of their family. he has so many capabilities that I just cant explain.

For a woman, she is never idiot or downgraded. Logistic support is always essential to run any business, household, etc. logistics are backbone. A man cannot survive for longer if he doesn't marry, because he needs that logistic support from woman. woman is made managed, she is well managed from top to bottom. she easily manage home, on the contrary, a man just mess with the things and cannot manage. she look after kids, husband, motivate his husband and son to achieve what is hard to achieve for them.

In general, a woman cannot live whole life without man, and man can also not live whole life without woman. However, there are some men and women that are able to live alone throughout the life but this would not be easy for them.
Conclusion, man is perfect at his place, and woman is perfect at his place. both needs help of each other on different things.

Different between machine and human is ERROR/ MISTAKE. If you want perfection in your life, become a machine.. XD or if you want your life partner perfect, marry with machine.. so simple..

Life is full of mistakes, do not dis-heart to count your mistakes, always feel pleasant to realize the positive aspects of life.
Have a good day..

Be a man, don't cry boy..

A quote which seems man doesn't cry. In fact, men do cry but in heart, he use to sacrifice to the best of his capacity.. Instead, most of the women take the benefit of being woman and show their fake tears to proof they are honest and loyal; whereas I say, if a woman is right, no problems will be there In relationship except some cases which are rare. Afterall, crocodile tears could be identified easily..

An Intellectual one can do this...

Really hard to find such a life partner who is loyal to u. Instead we can easily 
find a flirt. In this crucial and selfish world, everyone need a support Which is a lift partner could provide.
I also want, but a support not burden. Obviously, when someone supports me, I do too which is care..

Well, it was just a thought..

Wanna change your life, change yourself.!

Don't understand?

You only get those things which you are capable of.
 
You can never get admission directly in 7th standard without having studied preceding standards like 6th, 5th etc.

This rule applies everywhere:

Wanna become richer? a good businessman?
They don't waste time.

Want to beloved, love others.
Have a good day.!

Life was never worse unless I considered it.

Hey! whose eyes are you watching from? are these your eyes? is that possible for you or another?

Think before you consider something is possible for another. S/he wouldn't prefer to help you every time you consider Her/ Him.

The whom you do everything for, would never walk with you throughout your life unless S/he has a close or blood relation with you. The S/he could.

Admitting facts would be your first step towards success..

Without admitting any fact, you can't even take a decision to resolve the matter or whatever it is.. decisions depend on what you admit..

Quote Against Love..??

"Chose whether to have 'Love' or 'Success' in Life"

Want to get all the hopes that you hope while loving someone.??
Just don't love who you want to love; ultimately, you would keep having your senses that you lose in love.. 

A sensible person can understand this. If you are already in love, I am sorry, you cannot understand because you have already lost your senses...

do you think wasting time is bad..? because it won't come back.
If you have wasted your time in past and lost some of your objectives that you think you must have achieved but you didn't. Don't even think about it, you will waste your time after thinking about what couldn't not be changed.

So, Just go ahead.

Take experience from your past mistakes, don't repeat in present and plan your future for better time adjustments. But do not start over-thinking about future, it will waste your time though..

Thanks!

Love is like a team game that cannot be played or won by the sole efforts of one. If either one of both lovers, do not love sincerely or is not interested or S/he is flirting, their love would not end-up by marriage.. 

Wanna get example..? In cricket, one team cannot beat another until almost all players serve their efforts for winning the game..!

Why Love Marriages get failed much more than arrange marriages..????
 
A big Question Mark for a part of young generation has now solved here..!

It is because of lacking of respect and compromise..
 
However, most of the people do respect of their love ones but they do not compromise as they consider their boyfriend/ girlfriend not at the stage of importance of Husband/ Wife.

Compromises keep the relation continue. Moreover, it has been revealed from the verdict of people men do not have energy to compromise enough, they have their particular rules and policies upon which they go and all such facts are probably same in every man. Notwithstanding, women can compromise more and they can shape their lives accordingly but they do not intend to do it in affairs and sometimes in marriages as-well.

Affairs can be made successful if some of things be made borne in mind:
For instance: Respect, preference, compromises, very soft corner in heart, considering your lover as your life partner right away.

Compromises do not mean to tolerate someone's bad habits or behaviors, everyone has some bad habits and some good ones on the basis of which you love someone. It is better to decide in first stage whether you can tolerate his bad habits or not. Because men cannot change always, they can only be changed by women's soft behaviors.

There is too much to say for this topic, but I think, this is enough to explain what I wanted to. As for further queries, if any.

Thanks.!

There are some emotions in every relation. If any relation does not comprise emotions, either by one or both, that means relation is formal and therefore does not exists..

have you ever thought why some people are called backward..? it is not because of their present status, it is because they thought backward and looked backward in their past therefore, they are backward in their future i.e. today.

Always look and think about future, forget the mistakes that have you done in your past but don't forget to learn the lesson from what you did.

Nothing is predictable. If you are taking tension for your examination, doesn't mean that you would get passed then. You are required to learn rather to take tension for that. This will decrease your tension.

Never have a fear of failure, it happens with everyone. Try to be best and if you don't get the expected results, don't get upset, try again for the best.. This is how we live life.

Rules In LOVE? There should be right? Here they are:

CARE: Care shows depth of love, how much do you care about.

UNDERSTANDING: It is necessary to understand because if you don’t understand, you won’t recognize what things that your partner don’t like are.

AIM: Aim should not be attraction/ beauty only, beauty ends with the passage of time. There should be some habits that are reason of LOVE.

TRUTH: No one could bear affair of his/ her LOVE with someone else while s/he is in affair with him/ her too. Whatever you know about yourself, you should also intimate same to your LOVE.

DECISIONS: Decisions should be made with mutual understanding of both. But, not every decision needs debate.

FIGHT: It happens only where love exists. If someone doesn’t fight with you, s/he doesn’t love you lol. However, one should go silent and listen to other while other is angry on something. These matters may be solved later with calm behavior. Anger is dangerous in LOVE.

RESPECT: Every relation requires respect. Everyone likes having respect. Give respect, Enjoy respect.

I THINK I HAVE DONE WITH IT.

A man needs softness whereas a woman needs safety/ support. Men need a woman in their lives because they face tough situations in society, profession etc. Since, they are already strong as made by ALLAH, they need a softness in their lives which is a woman.

Women need man in their lives as husband because they cannot always take care of themselves. Therefore, they need a man who take care of them and safeguard them.

Why girls mostly are closer to their fathers/ brothers? Why not mothers/ sisters.?? BECAUSE GIRLS DO NOT WANT SUCH SOFT CORNERS

Why men are mostly closer to their moms/ sisters..? Why not brothers/ fathers.?

The fact is that everything becomes complete when its made by combination of one soft n hard thing. Scientifically or practically, whatever do you see, is a mixture of two things, soft n hard.

So, if someone still thinks, S/he doesn't need Man/woman in their lives, they are damn wrong, I guess..

Do you really want to win "LIFE"?

Give up trusting others because when you trust:

**You start expecting
 
**When you expect, you hurt if someone goes beyond your expectations
 
**When you hurt, you lose concentration on your career/ studies
 
**When you lose concentration on career/ studies, you mess with your life
 
**And finally you end-up with becoming failure

No one respects failures, people even don't care if you wasted all the things behind them.

This is you, who is responsible for any failure, not others would be.

**Don't waste your precious time in running after other people.
 
**No one will gonna give it to you back.
 
**People don't value those who have wasted their time even though behind such people who are not respecting you today.

 So, Just give up guys.!

Be aware of the fact that no one could get everything perfect. So, when you are going to take a decision, make sure that there should be some deficiencies in benefits you're gonna avail through. Otherwise, your plan would be failed with no certain reasons, as the fact would be against to your plan.
 
 "SOMETHING IS BETTER THAN NOTHING"
 
So decide for something to get rid of nothing.!

Although you know that you are doing great (in whatever field) but people do not motivate you nor appreciate you. You do not need to demotivate you that you may be doing wrong. Just stay calm and keep tat up, because in general, people don't want to let anyone raise him/herself better than them..

A man isn't as stronger as a woman. Woman seems like weak but the hidden fact is vice versa to it. When a man faces a lot of troubles, he may lose his temper or start delivering his anger to someone else. In spite of this, when a woman faces the same, she stays calm and try to overcome with the problems, even though, if she isn't able to tackle them.

Especially for those who are housewives and compromising in their lives to safeguard their marriages. Solute to them.!
 
KEEP IT UP..!

Love is an extreme enthusiasm. It born when a boy and girl start trusting on each other, enjoying each others' company and preferring to spend more of their time with each other. It ends when vice versa happens. You prefer to spend time with, enjoy company of and trust on when you find that the other person understands you. Love starts with understanding and ends with vice versa.

Motivation is a key to enthusiasm and ultimately positive enthusiasm brings you to success. If you are not being motivated by someone else, you can motivate yourself, by letting you know your strengths instead.

Thinking of yourself that you'll be succeeded because you're hardworking, is an obsolete thought. A donkey always work endlessly but he never get a chance to success because he does what he receives from the person who owned him and he never work towards right direction because he doesn't have intellectuality.. So, prove yourself, not to be donkey alike..

For Girls.!

Most of you knows that a girl/ woman is like a book, got it.
Now, lets have an example of a book.
 
Suppose you go to a bookstall for buying a book and you really intend to buy the book because the book is really interesting and its binding is fine as well. If the shopkeeper let you read whole book before you buy it, and he is letting you study all of it. Would you really buy it..??? I think 99% of you won't be interested to buy such book which you have already read wholly.

So, I think, it is understandable for a normal person who is a lil bit mature.!

RELATED TO MARRIAGE OR FOR THOSE WHO HAVE AN AFFAIR (GF/BF)
Guys.! I want you all to know that how we waste time by doubting on the other partner. I must say that there isn't any benefit which you'll be getting by doubting on your partner.

If your partner is loyal, and you do doubt, S/he will be angry on you and may stop loving you like before. When you doubt, it really hurts to your partner. and Hurting change the nature of love into hate or it may make another person loving someone else.

if your partner is not loyal, and you do doubt. S/he will get ashamed but S/he won't tell you the truth because if S/he doesn't want to fraud with you, S/he might not have done this to you. But if you don't doubt on Him/Her, S/he will come to you after some time or few years by noticing that you are so nice and being tolerating his/her other affairs, you are not saying anything to Him/her. Thereafter, S/he will be yours in the end.

(If you are having affair not marriage, then you need to leave him/her cause this never happen in affairs, it is only for marriage life whatever I said above.
Doubting your loved ones is nothing but a habit, a scary thought which comes to your mind that someone will snatch your loved ones from you, and this is nothing but actually love..

I am not preventing you to do it, I just want you people not to mention it.

Everybody has a GOD gifted quality or talent which may become the reason for his/ her success. But, you are required to find out this quality of you if you want to get succeeded in your life and if you really want to change your destiny.
For example:
If there is a coal mine, there is a coal mine simple. But you know what is the fact?? A coal mine may consists of DIAMONDS. But, it requires hectic searching work for.

Motive:
So, if you want to be succeeded, search hard for your talent your quality. Then go in that direction and work hard for the same.
I am telling you, you would get the success. However, success doesn't mean that you'll become the one of the rich man of the world.

Life is like a play, as you have already heard at most of the places. It has either loss or winnings. You just need to keep trying to achieve winning position, or if you are already at the same position then you need to work hard for maintaining. Never try to feel that you have nothing.

After every five days, there is a weekend for relief is waiting for you.. and After every weekend, there are five working days for tiredness are waiting for you again..

This Fact makes us understood that life has more pain than relief. So, never feel regret nor degrade yourself if you are being faced more tough time than relax period. You might be having good time in future as well. If a person is rich, it doesn't mean that he isn't facing any difficulty in his life, he may be facing hectic difficulties which you even can't tolerate at all.

Girls..! Why do you believe that men change after marriage..?
I say that a rational man never change, but women change, but women think that men has changed.!
Give your comments, and boys should also comments about the topic, let c, who knows the real fact.

The basic purpose of this question is to provide a knowledge which could only be understand by this way.!

Learn to say NO or otherwise you won't be able to get succeeded in your life and your own jobs and responsibilities will be affected.
Saying NO means to reject others when you feel difficulty to help someone, so just say no and just prefer to say prefer for your preference..

Would you agree if I say that Love is a Habit?

I can prove if you don't agree.. ;)

MOTIVATION is an important part of your success:
Motivating yourself is one of the best way to grow you up.
Life needs motivation whenever you stuck somewhere.
Self motivation is necessary to be succeeded in everyone's life.!

A girl, no matter how many times she denies it, she will always remember every detail, every moment, every piece of the memories you've left to her. No matter how much she tries to forget, it will always be there.